Ball control skills for U6 – U10

First touch and passing skills

I suggest that from U6 to U10 you should be spending 90 per cent of your soccer drill sessions on activities that will improve your players’ first touch and passing skills.

Group games are good but you should also take the time to talk to your players individually about their ball skills.

Five minutes spent discussing ball control skills with an individual player after a soccer training session will pay massive dividends.

Not only will this help improve their skills but their self-esteem will also get a big boost. And players with high self-esteem will win matches for you.

So watch your players and make notes.

  • Do your players get in line with the ball quickly or do they tend to let the ball run past them?
  • Is a player’s first touch of the ball hard (the ball runs away from them) or is it correct (the ball is pushed a little way in front or to the side and in a good position to make a pass or to shoot)? The ball very rarely needs to be stopped dead.
  • As the ball approaches, do your players get their head up and get a picture of where their team mates are?

Work on this with simple games such as Through the gate:

How to play Through the gate

Mark out small (20×10 yard) grids, one for each group of four players in your squad, with a centre line dividing the grid into two halves.

Place a small gate (about 2 yards wide) in the middle of the centre line.

The object of the game is for each pair of players to pass the ball through the gate to the other pair.

The rules: both players must touch the ball before it is passed through the gate and the ball must never stop.

If the ball does stop, or the players fail to control it before it leaves their side of the grid, a point is awarded to the other team.

Play to a specific target (for example, first to ten wins) or challenge your players to play for a set time without making a mistake.

Key coaching tip: To stop players trying to blast the ball through their opponents’ half of the grid, insist on side-foot passes only.

Progression: When your players are comfortable with the basic game, allow them one or two touches only to control the ball before passing.

U11 – U14 possession practice plan

We have all seen it – a team masterfully knocking the ball around ad nauseam but accomplishing very little. 

Suddenly, one or two defenders close down an attacker, there is a miscue – a poorly weighted pass or a poor receiving angle – a defender picks off a pass and there is a counterattack, most likely resulting in a goal. This type of ball possession can be very boring or very exciting, depending on which team you are playing.

Here are a few exercises gleaned from various local and international coaches aimed at improving ball control and encouraging possession with a purpose – scoring goals!

Warm-up

Light jogging, juggling, Coervers, free-form passing in 3s – interspersed with stretching.  Emphasize the stretching.

Dutch Game

3 teams (example; 5 reds. 5 blues, and 5 whites) in a 40×30 yard area – adjust grid to size of teams – playing 10v5, 8v4 or 6v3.  Two teams (red and blue) play keep away from the other team (white).  See how many consecutive passes you can complete.  If a red player loses the ball to a white player, the whites and blues play against the reds, and so on.  You can progress from unlimited touches to 3 touches, 2 touches and then one touch.

Emphasize sharp, crisp, accurate, and properly weighted passing, off the ball runs,  good passing and receiving angles, and good communication.  Players should keep their heads up and look long, medium and then short for passing opportunities.  Avoid continuous passing around the perimeter of the grid.  Encourage players to check into the middle of the grid to become target players.  Some of the Dutch professional teams use this as a warm-up.

Barcelona

More and more teams are shifting from man-to-man defending to zonal defending.  In order to disrupt these zonal defenses, teams have found it necessary for their players to be able to make sharp, accurate passes to teammates across the pitch to quickly change the point of attack.  When Johan Cruyff was at Barcelona, they incorporated this exercise into their training.  In an area slightly larger than the penalty area, or larger rectangular area (depending on skill level and success rate), play 8v8 keep-away with the restriction that no pass can be less than 15 yards or 20 yards (pick one).  Count the number of consecutive passes.  All passes should be played as hard as possible to receiving players – almost to the point of blasting it across the ground.  Players will be forced to get into receiving positions and to make good first touch receptions.  Again, you can progress from unlimited touches to 3 touch, 2 touch and then a final one-touch melee.  At first this will not go well and balls will be flying everywhere.  Be patient and stay with it.  You will be amazed at the energy level this creates, the first touch control the players develop, the crispness of the passing. Also, the players will quickly learn they have to think well ahead of every pass.

Emphasize: (1) long, crisp ground passes; (2) getting into receiving and supporting positions quickly; and (3) good first touch control – relax the foot; (4) good communication.

Prisoner

In a 40×30 yard grid with a 2×3 yard grid in the center of the larger grid. Two teams of equal players.

Team A puts a player in the small center grid and scores a goal every time the ball is played into the center grid player and back out again to a Team A teammate (ground passes, volleys, headers all count as goals if successfully played back out to a Team A player).  Team B tries to keep Team A from scoring.  Team B scores a goal if it completes 5 consecutive passes.  Team A tries to disrupt Team B and intercept passes. Reverse the teams.

Danish Game – With Neutral Players

In a 60×30 yard or 60×40 yard grid with 5 yard end zones at each end of the grid.  Neutral players occupy the end zones (they can be field players or GKs); no challenges in the end zone.  Two teams (red and blue) play up and down the length of the grid possessing the ball as much as possible.  Either team (in this example, red team) scores a goal when it successfully gains possession, travels to either end zone A or B (for this example end zone A), makes a successful pass into the end zone to the neutral player, receives a return pass (to any player on the passing team), then travels back to end zone B, makes and receives a return pass, and then travels back to end zone A and makes and receives a return pass.  After you intercept a pass, you can attack either end zone A or end zone B (it doesn’t matter in which direction you start), but in order to score a goal, you must traverse the grid to the opposite end zone, and return to the original end zone where you started (ABA or BAB).  Players may also use neutral players at either end zone for back passes to relieve pressure.  Emphasize ball possession while traversing the area.  You can work on one-twos, wall passes, takeovers, and selling dummies, all with the purpose of going forward.  Look long, medium and short.  GKs can participate in the end zones or on the pitch using both their hands and feet.

Danish Game – Without neutral players

Same game only with empty end zones; a team has to send a player into the end zone to receive and return a pass; no challenges in the end zone – repeat at both ends as before to score a goal.    

Cool-down

Set up a 12×9 yard grid: place discs at 3 yard intervals along the 12 yard length, and then place discs at 3 yard intervals across the width.  Two teams of 6 players each go into the grids as follows.

 

x     x     x     x     x

A     B     A    B

x     x     x     x     x

A     B     A    B

x     x     x     x     x

A     B     A    B

x     x     x     x     x

 

Team A tries to make accurate passes through Team B to teammates A in the 3rd grid area.  A’s and B’s can interpass or change places only in their grid.  A’s and B’s cannot leave their respective grids to receive or intercept passes.  If B’s intercept, B’s try to complete passes through team A to teammates B in the next grid over.  Teams compete to complete the most number of passes.  Extra players are divided evenly and fill in with their respective teams.  Switch A’s and B’s grid positions.  Losing team does slow shuttles while picking up a disc on each shuttle.  Winning team starts stretching and is joined later by losing team.

Team stretches together.

Ball control games for all ages

Pig-in-the-Middle

Break the team up into groups of three, with one football to a group. Volunteer one player to be the pig-in-the-middle. The two other players try to pass the ball past the pig without letting her control it. Once the pig traps the ball, one of the other players takes her place. The two outside players must control the ball, or they will have to switch with the pig.

Rapid Fire

Have the team form a circle around a single player. Every player except the middleman should have a ball. Have each team member take turns passing the ball to the player in the centre. This player tries to trap and control the ball, and then passes it back to the original player. Have each team member take a turn as the middleman.

Continue Down the Line

Divide team members into groups of four players with one ball to a group. Select one player to be the server. The three remaining players should line up, side by side, facing the server. The server will take turns serving the ball to each player who must trap and control before returning it to the server. Continue in this fashion, alternating the server.

Flight ball

Divide team into pairs, giving each pair one ball and a grid. One player will be the server, who is to serve the ball in the air to any location in the other player’s half of the grid. This player must move to the ball, trap it, and return it to the server. Alternate roles after every 10 serves.

4 v 1 keep-away

I’ve used this drill many times with great success.

It demands total concentration and good ball control. It also encourages children to look up (not at their feet) otherwise they will run into each other.

Use a square grid about 10 x 10 yards. 4 v 1 with a player at each corner. Play keep away from defender in middle while keeping ball in the square grid. For more advanced players use 3 v 1 or 3 v 2 with one open corner (player must move to support).

Tips: Shorten grid as players get better. Keep score by counting passes. Don’t be too strict in keeping ball in square – let play continue unless blatantly out of square.

Attacking moves

How to improve technical aspects of ball control.

Objectives

To improve technical footwork.

To practice different ways to get around a player or to change direction.

Set­up

Make a box, roughly about 15 x 15 yards (varies on player abilities and age), and place a cone at each corner. Place a cone in the middle, as illustrated below, and have about 2/3 players behind each cone, EXCEPT the middle cone.

I’ll usually make 2 boxes depending on number of players.

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Performing the Drill

The first player in each line will start with a ball. The first portion of the drill is changing direction. So, each line will attack the cone at the same time and do a turn. Following turns that can be done are: outside of the foot cut, inside of the foot cut, Cruyff, step over, and sole roll. You want to go through using both right and left foot. Also, you want to emphasize going at the cone, but making sure to slow yourself down as you approach the cone and really sell the turn. You don’t want to wait until you are on top of the cone, just like you wouldn’t wait till you are on top of a defender.

The second piece is now attacking moves at the cone. Now, only diagonals will go at one time. Again, attack the cone with some pace but under control and do a move. Following moves that can be practiced are: scissors, double scissors, Stanley Matthews, reverse Stanley Matthews, Revalino, etc (below are additional moves and descriptions). Once one diagonal goes, the next diagonal goes, and so on and so forth. Again, remember to be going to the right and left when attacking to work on both feet.

Equipment Needed: 5 cones and 4 balls

Summary

The idea is to work on handling the ball and being able to practice different moves and turns with both feet. It’s important that you attack the cone with speed, but as you begin to approach the cone to slow down at a controlled pace to do the move or turn. Once you do the move, the EMPHASIS is to accelerate to the line. The sequence is not over just because you did a turn or a move. The sequence is over when you do a turn and move and then accelerate to get comfortable and use to exploding into new space away from the opponent.

Description of Attacking Moves and Turns

• Scissor, ball is between both legs or in front of right foot, swing right foot behind ball toward left leg then around front of ball and plant to the right of your body, bring left foot to opposite side of ball and take to your left with the outside of your left foot. Can add 2 or more of these together to make double, triple scissors.

• Step over, ball is between both legs, take right foot and swing over ball and step past your left foot, then knock ball back toward your right with the outside of the right or same foot.

• Revalino, like move above but will take ball behind you. ball is between both legs, take right foot and swing over ball and step past your left foot, then take your left inside of foot and touch ball behind you, turn and dribble.

• Roll back or “L”, right sole of foot on ball, roll or pull back straight behind you, when it gets past your left standing leg, use the inside of
your right or same foot and push ball behind your left standing leg. The path of the ball makes a backward L on the ground with right foot and normal L with left foot.

• V or Vee, ball is in front of your left foot, with the sole of your right foot pull the ball back toward where your right leg was standing, then take the inside of your same foot, right, and push it towards your right. The path of the ball makes a V on the ground.

• Maradona, almost like Train. ball is in front of your right foot, put sole of right foot on top of ball, then put right foot directly in front of your left foot, then with the sole of your left foot place on top of ball and spin with back toward the ball. Stop, step, and spin. Doing a 360 degree turn.

• Stanley Mathews, basically taking the ball first with inside of right foot and then quickly with outside of right foot, foot never leaves the ball. Lean to your left with ball in front of right foot, push ball with inside of right foot toward your left, then hop toward left, quickly take ball back to the right with the outside of the foot. Push, hop, take.

• Reverse Stanley Mathews, same as above except don’t take with outside of right foot. Push to left, hop, then scissor to right and take ball
back with outside of left.

• Roll scissors, do a rollover forward with your right foot, then do a scissor with right foot, faking to right, and come back to your left with
the outside of your left foot.

• Roll stepover, do a rollover forward with your right foot, then do a stepover with your left foot and take back toward your left.

• Swivel hips, dribbling forward, slightly touch ball with inside of right foot like you are going to pass back to someone behind you, you are now facing sideways, then with inside of left foot knock it back in front of you and take off. Dribble, cut with right, then cut back with left. You are faking like you are slowing down do go back behind you then you take off in your original direction.

• Inside cut move: dribble forward at a slight angle, pull right leg back like you are going to shoot then cut the ball with the instep or inside of right foot, Must cut ball back toward left plant leg and then move left plant leg before the ball hits and take with outside of left foot.

• Outside cut move: dribble forward toward defender, act like you are going to shoot, pull right leg back and right before you strike the ball
take toward your right with the outside of your right foot.

• Cruyff, dribble toward right at a slight angle, act like you are going to shoot with your right foot, place left plant foot a step past the ball, then cut the ball behind that left leg with the inside of your right foot.

Shooting accuracy

Improve your team’s shooting accuracy!

soccer coaching drill – shooting

EQUIPMENT: 2 footballs, 2 cones, 1 tarp and bungee cords or rope

NUMBER OF PLAYERS: Whole team

After watching two games in a row where my team shot over and over directly to the opponent’s goalkeeper, I decided that I needed to do something drastic to change their thought process about shooting. Although I had told them many times in practice that they needed to shoot for the low corners as a general rule, they just didn’t get what I was trying to emphasise. In frustration at our last game, I joked to the assistant coach, “I’m going to cover up the middle of the goal with a tarp next practice – let’s see how they like that!” But then I thought, “Hey – that’s not a bad idea…”

SETUP: I arranged the old tent tarp to cover up the centre 1/3 of the goal, covering it from top to bottom. The tarp has nice grommet holes in it to lace your rope over the goal, or to attach the bungee cords to. I put the equipment bag on the bottom (inside the goal) of the tarp to keep it from blowing in the breeze.

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I placed a football in each side area on top of a cone. You don’t really need the cones, but the kids get a kick out of knocking things down versus just hitting them.

I talked to the kids and explained that the giant blue tarp represented the area where the goalkeeper would easily save a shot, and the basketballs were the nearly perfect areas to shoot at. In order to hit the balls, you have to “aim small, miss small”. You can’t just “kick the ball at the goal” which is what I think we were doing in the past. You have to accurately select your target, and aim right for it!

POINT SYSTEM:
1: Any shot in the goal not hitting the target ball
2: Knocking the ball off the cone
-1: Hitting the tarp (Negative one point)

GAMEPLAY

I ran my entire practice around this silly tarp, and it was awesome! The first few minutes there were a lot of shots into the tarp, but by the end of our hour together, I would estimate that 1 in 10 were hitting the tarp, and about 1 in 5 were knocking a ball off of its cone!

You can turn almost any drill into this game, and I rewarded the kids as teams or as individuals when they had high scores after each section. Then we would start over the scoring again for the next time.

DRIBBLING: We dribbled through cones, ending with coming around a cone for the shot. Worked left and right sides. You can make your own dribbling games end with a shot this way.

SHOOTING: We worked around the perimeter of the penalty area (vary by age) shooting from multiple spots right after one another to keep it lively and minimal standing around.

GAMES

Steal the Bacon works great here. Count off your team into two equal groups. Each group should have a “Player 1”, a “Player 2”, et cetera. It’s best if both of the same number kids are similar in skills and size. Line up each team on their own side of the penalty area line to start. The coach throws up a ball in the middle (about at the penalty spot) and calls out a single number (or sets of numbers as you want to increase intensity). The players with the number called race to the ball to control it, shield off the other player, and take a shot. Keep score for each side. Coaches can help to influence the game a little with “errant” throws that may benefit a slower player. Creative cheating from the coach! We always finish with a tie score and *all* of the numbers get called for the final ball.

War: Split the team into 2 groups. Players take shots from the penalty mark. If they hit the tarp, they go to the end of the other line (the other team). If they make it, they go to the end of their own line. If they knock off a basketball, the last player in the opponents line goes to the end of their line.

Coaching players with ADHD

How to coach soccer to children with ADHD

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD/ADD) is a type of disability which apparently involves some mis-wiring of the brain or the hormonal systems in the body.

As a result of the disorder, children tend to be markedly inattentive and often are hyperactive (sometimes to the point of being almost frantic in their movements). The disorder usually is treated by administration of stimulants (such as amphetamines) – which have the unusual effect of slowing these children down (while the rest of the population would be highly-stimulated by these same drugs).

This disorder is NOT the fault of the parents. It does NOT mean that the child lacks discipline (either by the coach or by his parents). What it DOES mean is that, just like a child with diabetes or the player with asthma, this player needs to take certain drugs to be able to function normally.

While these players can create some headaches and frustrations until the coach learns the proper way to handle their particular problems (and gives the parents enough feedback to adjust dosages, if necessary, to handle disruptions at practice), most of these children can do just fine in soccer. In fact, because of their high energy levels, these players often make terrific little players once their energy can be harnessed.

To be able to harness their energies, the coach needs some more information about the disorder. Characteristics of ADHD/ADD arise in early childhood, often before seven years of age, for most individuals. Boys are about three times more likely than girls to have symptoms of ADHD/ADD. Individuals with ADHD/ADD may know what to do but do not consistently do what they know because of their inability to efficiently stop and think prior to responding, regardless of the setting or task (in other words, they tend to be very impulsive – and to act without thinking). This can result in serious social problems, impairment of relationships, and/or lack of success. Doing things without thinking about the consequences can put them in dangerous situations (as they might run into traffic without looking, or climb the tree while the coach’s back is turned). Thus, coaches of children with ADHD must be vigilant in keeping an eye on these charges, especially when they are fairly young.

The official definition of ADHD can be found at the CHADD website (an organization for children and adults with attention deficit disorder). Children may have attention deficits (i.e., be impulsive and unable to focus) without being hyperactive – or they also can display the additional frenetic hyperactivity which is commonly associated with the disorder.

ADHD should be diagnosed by a physician or qualified mental health professional. It is not uncommon that children are suspected of having the disorder, when they simply are “full of life”. Therefore, most coaches will not be able to diagnose the disorder. Nonetheless, if the player appears to be demonstrating many characteristics of an ADHD child, the coach may wish to quietly and confidentially approach the parents to report his observations – and ask for assistance and advice on the best way to deal with the child.

What We Need To Know About ADD

It has been estimated that six to ten percent of all children (17% to 35% of adopted children) display an attention deficit difference. These ADD children are prone to learning difficulties, have problems developing good social skills, suffer from an inability to pay attention and are extremely likely to harbor unrecognized frustration and anxiety. They may endure quietly, in silence, or if also beset by hyperactivity, may assertively, or even aggressively, seek attention. ADDers, who often “wear their feelings on their sleeve,” may deal with their extreme sensitivity by acting out combatively (Oppositional Defiant Disorder, or ODD), or by turning in upon themselves and displaying depression. Many suffer from impulsivity, frequently speaking out of turn or acting intrusively without thinking.

ADD is a brain-based imbalance of neurotransmitters which can show up on PET (Positron Emissions Tomography) scans and other recently developed methods for studying the brain. It is genetically linked and usually runs in families. It is often accompanied by allergies. Some ADDers require medication to deal with the overwhelming stimuli of their environment.

ADD without hyperactivity-referred to medically as ADHD: Predominately Inattentive Type-rarely presents overt behavior problems at school or in soccer. In fact, these children often quietly remain undiagnosed. They are, however, prone to depression, anxiety, alcohol/drug abuse and solitary behavior. Often they prefer individual activities (swimming, tennis, horseback riding, computer games, reading, music, etc.) over team sports (soccer, football, basketball, etc.) which may provide too much stimuli for them to assimilate comfortably. When bombarded with sensory input-for example, a coach or parent shouting encouragement or instructions-these children will withdraw. ADD without hyperactivity often remains undiscovered until puberty and sometimes until adulthood.

ADHD or ADD with Hyperactivity-medically referred to as ADHD: Predominately Hyperactive/Impulsive Type (or, if inattention is also a major problem, ADHD: Combined Type)-is most commonly treated with Ritalin. If given too high a dose of this drug, a normally hyperactive child may exhibit “spacey”, almost catatonic behavior. On too low a dose, he or she may show no reduction in hyperactivity and inattention at all. Parents may, or may not, appreciate feedback on their child’s reaction to medication.

Physicians advise some parents to medicate their children while at school, not to increase the amount they learn-studies show that the use of Ritalin does not increase academic achievement over the long run-but rather to help their child relate positively to the school environment. A child who is disliked by his peers or by school personnel will develop a poor self-concept and make few, if any, friends. The difficult task of learning good social skills now becomes impossible because no one wants to be around the child. Parents need to be advised if this circumstance carries over to soccer practice.

An ADHD child should expect to benefit from the social interaction at games and soccer practice. If the child finds the experience frustrating or humiliating, the parent needs to be informed. An ADHD child is already at risk for developing anti-social behaviors and poor self-esteem without being forced to participate in a competitive after-school activity which is counter to his or her best interests. If the parents’ well-meaning attempt to give their child a weekend “drug holiday” makes the child an insufferable, ineffective teammate at the game on Saturday, the “drug holiday” may best wait for summer vacation when stress levels on the child are usually greatly reduced.

Ritalin may ease an ADHD soccer player’s struggles in dealing with the competitive environment of youth sports. An ADHD player can become a team captain or star goalkeeper if parents and the physician persevere in their search for the proper dosage of medication for the child.

Medications other than Ritalin are available if it cannot be properly dosed. A competent child psychiatrist who works regularly with ADD can mix and match various drugs that can impact the level of neurotransmitters in the brain. These medications can help an ADHD child learn to begin controlling impulsivity and inattention and should help the child make better decisions in social situations. If that is not happening, the dosage or the medication needs to be changed.

Helping the ADD Player Maintain Focus

A learning environment that is helpful for an ADD child will benefit all children. And everything espoused in USYSA coaching clinics to help young players develop their skills will help an ADD player stay actively involved in soccer practice. The better we perform as coaches, the fewer problems ADD players will have.

An ADD child will misbehave while waiting in line, but a good coach will avoid asking his players to stand in line. We learn by touching the ball, not standing in line. Soccer, after all, is not a static game. Movement should be praised, and ADD kids are experts at moving.

Since we learn by touching the ball, each player should have a ball. Keep instructions and corrections short. Use “coaching points” and catch phrases. Repeat them often and with enthusiasm.

Avoid negative feedback. We know that corrective feedback and positive feedback produce better results, simultaneously improving skills and building confidence.

Remember to use that “feedback sandwich.”

Positive feedback can be given in front of the group, but corrective feedback directed at an individual player should be given privately. Always make direct eye contact when speaking to your players. Ask players to repeat back your instructions to be sure they understand what you are asking for.

Boredom inhibits learning. Frustration and anxiety inhibit learning. Break tasks down into small steps so that all players can master each step, but be sure the challenge is great enough to keep your players interested. Success breeds success.

Mistakes happen. They are a natural part of the learning process. View them as growth opportunities. Be respectful and forgiving of yourself, your players and the referees.

Disorganized practices invite misbehavior. Plan a fun practice with instructive games.

Have fun yourself!

Fitness and fun are not mutually exclusive. Start your practice with a warm-up game of tag. Always give your hyperactive players a chance to be “It,” though not to the exclusion of everyone else. The work rate for “It” is significantly greater than for the other players, and a fatigued player absolutely will not misbehave! He or she will not have the energy for acting up. It beats running humiliating laps.

Become a student of the game. Take more coaching clinics. Attend upper level matches. Watch videos. Try playing. The passion you display for the game is contagious and an ADD player who is passionate about the game will give you 110%. Always!

There is no quick fix for ADD, just like there is no quick fix for poor teaching or poor coaching. By sharing a copy of this article with team parents at the start of each season, maybe we can begin to help ADD children reach their full potential with and without the ball, instead of simply remaining confounded by their behavior.

Across the line

Across the LineImproves dribbling, ball control and communication

Two teams play soccer on a field without goals. A point is scored when a player dribbles the ball over and stops the ball within three feet of the end line.

COACHING POINTS

“Push the ball into space” – move ahead into open space.

“Keep control of the ball” – when crossing the line.

“Pass the ball if a teammate is open for a pass” – passing is more efficient than dribbling.

“If you can’t dribble forward, look to pass the ball backward” – use this game to teach players the concept of support.

VARIATIONS

Harder: Stop the ball on the end line for a point.

Easier: Vary the field size. Wider field makes it easier for the offensive team.

Make smaller teams (2 vs. 2 or even 1 vs. 1). Winning team stay on.

Attendance problems

The best time to deal with attendance issues is at the pre-season meeting.

Remember, soccer is a team sport. As a result, it creates huge problems for the coach and the team if the players don’t show up for games – as the absence of sufficient players spoils the game for everyone (and may even cause a game to be forfeited). Likewise, because many skills in soccer build on skills which were learned earlier, it can create a nightmare for the coach if a player consistently misses steps in the instruction – because the coach either has to make special effort to try to help the player to catch up; simply have the player sit out until he can find time to help him; or let the player flounder (which then disrupts the learning of his partner). Similarly, if the player is chronically late to practice, this leaves the coach with the same 3 bad choices (let the child sit; let him flounder; or try to juggle things so that he hold an extra parallel practice for the latecomer).

So, use this meeting to make clear what your expectations are on attendance. Talk about the importance of making a commitment – and keeping a commitment. Explain that you do not want to be the only adult who keeps their commitments and that, just as you won’t skip practices or skip games, you don’t expect the parents to allow their players to skip practices or games. Ask if everyone is willing to make a firm commitment to come to all of the practices and all of the games, unless there is some true emergency or illness. Hand out player agreements in which the player promises in writing to come to practices and games, and to work hard. Make a production out of this – and explain why you are doing so. Why is it important to address attendance problems early? The answer is easy. If you don’t push hard for good attendance, the kids who will end up leaving your team are the reliable ones (because they will be sick of playing on a team where nobody shows up – and where the practices are no fun, because coach is always distracted by trying to bring others up to speed or the team-mates cannot do the drills because they have missed so much work).

Furthermore, if the other parents/players see that Johnny is never coming to practices and not showing up for games (and coach doesn’t act like this is a problem), some others will be tempted to start doing the same thing. So, if you allow parents and players to believe that you don’t care if they show up and will accept any old excuse, your team is likely to be filled with players who show up when they feel like it – and whose skills (and win/loss record) reflect their lackadaisical approach. If one or two parents do not want to make this commitment, offer to try to move them to another team. And, if half or more of the parents do not want to make the same commitment to the team which you are, you need to consider whether it is worthwhile to bother with this group (because the chances are good that even the committed players won’t bother coming by the end of the season, as it is not much fun to play or practice with people who show up so seldom that they may not even know your name). You can flatter yourself that you can make the practices so much fun that the kids will want to be there. However, the kids don’t drive. Thus, if the parents view you as a glorified unpaid babysitter to use whenever it is convenient, or as a way-stop in a whirlwind tour of every extra-curricular activity in the universe, the pleas to return to practice will fall on deaf ears anyway.

Despite having this discussion at the outset, you may run into some problems with attendance by some players. Here are some things to do which may help you to nip these problems in the bud.

Always take attendance at practice. If anyone is tardy, note this as well.

Make a big deal out of any absence or tardiness. Tell the player that he was missed. Keep him late to go over anything that he missed (or ask for him to come early). Call the parents at home to ask why. Remind them that you need him at practice.

When a player is tardy, don’t allow him to join the group immediately. Put him to work on doing warmups or fast-footwork drills. Then, hold him out of the scrimmage at the end of practice to do special work. Make sure that he understands that the reason that he is not scrimmaging is because he showed up late.

If the player is late more a few times, talk to the parent and find out why. Suggest other transportation options. Suggest a carpool. But, make sure that the parent understands what happens to YOUR schedule when the player is late – as it is very unfair to expect you to run parallel practices or to disrupt others.

Take attendance at each game, and give a star (or small treat) to anyone who made all of the practices for the week on time and who showed up for the game on time (give a reduced award to the ones who were tardy). Allocate any extra time to those with perfect attendance. If your best efforts at persuasion do not work, then your primary objectives are: trying to get the other parents/players not to follow in the path of the irresponsible parent; and, if you cannot cut the child at the end of the season, trying to convince his parents to take him to another team.

Some coaches try to achieve these objectives by benching the absent player. However, this option often is not available to Rec coaches (because Club rules may require the coach to play a player for one-half game if he shows up, even if the child never comes to practice). Besides, if the team has to play short if the player is benched, it is difficult to do this without upsetting the other parents.

Even where benching is possible, it may be very hard to punish the child (who doesn’t drive) for the irresponsible behaviour of the parents. The child often looks so miserable that other parents and players will feel sorry for him (which can cause a backlash). Likewise, angry confrontations with the parents whenever they show up do little good (as this scares all of the other kids; tend to upsets the other parents (who won’t really understand what has gone on before or why you are so upset with this group of parents); and tend to affect how the coach comes across in the practices and games (because an irritated coach usually lacks a sense of humour and doesn’t seem to be having a good time)).

So, what can you do? First, talk to the Club and make sure that they know that you could use an extra player. Often, where a team is having to play short, the Club will bend the rules on signups and allow the other players to find a classmate to come to the team late. If you can get a replacement, it may be easier to diplomatically offer to let the other child drop off so that his parents won’t be bothered by having to bring him when it obviously is so much of a burden.

In most cases, you also will want to hold a team meeting to talk about how to handle the attendance problems (in order to place the spotlight on the problem and bring any complaints or problems out into the open). Some coaches are afraid to hold meetings to discuss attendance problems – because they fear that the irresponsible parents will claim that it is the coach’s fault that the child doesn’t come to practice. However, if someone is going to make these claims, there is a good chance that they already are doing it behind the back of the coach anyway – so it makes sense to get these complaints out in the open where the coach has some chance of giving a rebuttal to the back-biting.

Remember that, if the majority are not happy with your coaching, this is something that you need to know (as either you are wasting your time or you haven’t done a good sales job on your philosophy on player development). Quite often, parents with little involvement in team activities will blame the coach when what they really mean is “we don’t like the win/loss record” or “my child should be playing more”. This is why it is a good idea to address your definition of “winning” and your philosophies on playing time at the Preseason meeting – and to continue to give regular updates to the parents on the progress of the children, so that they will realize that the players actually are learning new skills in practice, which will help to improve their win/loss record over time.

Also understand that, to some parents, the only thing that matters is that their child is on a “winning” team (even as a bench-sitter). There also are parents who truly believe that they are entitled to drop in and out of any activity without penalty, and it is your job to be an unpaid babysitter for times when it is convenient for them to drop the child off. If most of the parents do not agree with your coaching philosophies, then you are the wrong leader for this particular group – even though you are a good person and may be a terrific coach. If you are the wrong person for the job which is being offered, then you need to know this – or you will be beating your head against the wall in frustration.

In most cases, the vast majority of parents have no interest in coaching; are very grateful that you are doing the job; and will be supportive once they understand the problems which you face when players are tardy or absent. Often, they can help to bring pressure to bear on the Club to provide another player to your team and/or help to locate an extra player. If this isn’t possible, they may be able to help you to talk the Club into disbanding your team and placing the responsible kids on other teams. So, the chances are good that you will manage to work things out in a manner which suits the majority. However, if you are offered a job by the majority which you just don’t want, don’t be afraid to turn it down